Stuck Between Who You Were and Who You Want to Be? Let's Close That Gap.
1:1 Coaching for the Identity Shift: Mind, Body, Systems, Community
If you're here, you're probably:
Stuck in a job or life that feels "fine" but you know you want more
Paralysed by "what if I fail" or "what if I waste months or years on the wrong thing"
Overwhelmed by responsibilities (family, bills, people depending on you) — you can't just "take the leap"
Scared you're too old, too late, or too behind to start over
Dealing with imposter syndrome that tells you "someone else does it better"
Tired from trying to figure it out alone
And the worst part is?
You don't even know what you want anymore. You just know it's not THIS.
I get it, I've been there...
And I'm here to help you get unstuck — not by giving you a secret formula, but by guiding you back to yourself, to help you build that self-trust and relationship with yourself again, so you can figure out what YOU actually want and build it sustainably.
No "just quit your job" advice. No toxic positivity. Just real support for real life.
Hi, I'm Wendy,
and I was you just a few years ago.
Stuck between who I was supposed to be and who I actually wanted to be.
There’re so many things that I said I want to do,
but I was scared that it was too late to try and that it’ll be embarrassing if I failed again.
I was convinced that someone else could do it better.
Scared that I was too old to begin again.
On the outside, it looks like I had it all together with a career that's thriving. But deep inside, I knew I wanted a different path that feels so much more me and aligned.
I had ideas — a content empire, a different path, a life that felt like MINE — but every time I got close to pursuing them, a voice would whisper in my head:
"Who are you to do this?
Are you not grateful with what you already have?"
Here's what I learned:
I wasn't stuck because I lacked clarity (okay, maybe at first…), but I was stuck because I didn't trust myself. Because my body thought change = danger. Because I was doing it alone.
What got me unstuck wasn't more research or strategy. It was:
→ Mindset work to clear the limiting beliefs
→ Nervous system regulation to feel safe in growth and change
→ Sustainable systems to build while keeping my life intact
→ Community who guided and cheered me on when things get tough
And most importantly? I learned to trust myself again.
I stopped trying to force my way into the woman I wanted to become and started BEING her — by honouring what my body actually needed. Rest when I was tired. Action when I had energy. Intuition over constant planning.
This is what working with feminine energy looks like: building WITH your natural rhythms, not against them. And when I did that? I didn't have to "manifest" my dream life. I started LIVING it — one aligned step at a time.
Oh, to be able to create an intimate and safe space for women who needed it! It's such a dream job to be go deep in the work that I do. While my 1-on-1 coaching is mainly conducted online, if we're ever in the same city, I'd love to meet you in person too! :)
Today, I'm rebuilding my life in my 30s — still messy, still figuring it out, but at least I’m moving.
And I help women like you do the same.
Not as a guru on a pedestal, but as a guide who's just a few steps ahead and remembers exactly what it felt like to be stuck, scared, and alone.
If you're ready to stop performing and start living as yourself — let's talk.
This is for you if:
You're in your 30s (or close to it) ready to stop waiting for "someday"
You're willing to do the inner work (mindset, nervous system, belief shifts) — this isn't a quick-fix strategy session
You're committed to taking small, consistent action (even when it's scary)
You're ready to invest in yourself (time, money, energy) — even if it feels uncomfortable
You want a guide who's been through it, not a guru who claims to have all the answers
This is NOT for you if:
You're looking for someone to tell you exactly what to do (I help you find YOUR answers)
You want overnight results or a quick hack
You're not willing to look at your mindset, fears, or patterns
You're in crisis mode and need immediate financial/mental health support (get that first, then come back to me okay)
Sound like you? Keep reading.
In our work together, we focus on 4 pillars:
Mind
Clarity & Belief Shifts
We clear the fog of "I don't know what I want" and work through limiting beliefs, imposter syndrome, and the fears keeping you stuck.
Body
Nervous System Regulation
Through breathwork and somatic practices, we help your body feel SAFE in change and growth — because you can't think your way out of a nervous system problem.
System
Sustainable Action
We build a bridge strategy with small, achievable steps that work WITH your life (job, family, commitments) — not fantasy plans that require you to blow everything up.
Community
Support & Accountability
You don't do this alone. You'll have me as your guide and (depending on the program) access to a community of women going through the same thing.
The result?
You go from "stuck and scared" to "clear and moving."
You reconnect with what you actually want.
You trust yourself again.
And you build a life that feels aligned — without destroying the one you have.
What My Clients Said
Wendy has cut my back-end operating time by half which opened me up to show up more on the front-end — teaching, speaking, selling and coaching which I love and is necessary for the coaching business to thrive.
I cannot emphasize the important of having a system at the back even when we are starting out because it puts the mind at ease to do what is necessary for my self and my business.
Doing this has helped me doubled my monthly revenue ($10k to $20k) because my business now have the capacity to manage more.
Chiron Yeng
Leadership Mentor
- coaching focused on Systems
I think the biggest win for me was that I view challenges and obstacles differently after getting coaching advice from Wendy. I think I have better control over the way I think nowadays. What used to bring me anxiety and worry is now more of an opportunity to improve myself and the quality of the service that I am offering. I was not only able to apply this in my career but having this mindset certainly helped me in my personal life as well. I felt more confident in myself and the services that I'm offering. I still get a little anxious whenever I do something different but I still do it anyway. In addition to that, I also am more motivated to show up consistently, keep improving my skills, and I am looking forward to gaining new ones.
Erine E.
Social Media Manager
- coaching focused on Mindset & Nervous System Regulation
Before this coaching session, I was feeling lost, stuck and unhappy with work and where I am. I was looking for a way out. I was looking for my purpose. What can I do for the people around me or to make the world a better place. Something that I am passionate about. Throughout the coaching process, I found clarity about my talents, weakneses, my gifts and skills. Deep down, I'm sure all of us are aware of it or atleast we have these inkling. But having a coach there with you, talking to you, asking questions, guiding you when you aren't sure of the things that are coming out from your mouth...just brought a whole level of clarity.
Going through the exercise of drafting the course outline for my program, made it real. It is not a dream anymore. It can come true with action, guidance and consistent pouring in the hours. I thought I couldn't wake up at 6am with all the busy schedule last december, but I did. We did it together. That felt like a win. Because it have me a sense of accomplishment that I have the power to navigate through life eventhough the external environment doesn't support me. The session brought a new level of understanding about communicating people needs and researching what are the problems out there that I can help to solve.
Joudi M.
Self-Image Coach
- coaching focused on Mindset & Systems
Here's what happens when you apply:
Step 1: You fill out the application below
This helps me understand where you are and what you need.
Be honest — this isn't a test, it's a conversation starter.
Step 2: I review your application
I'll read through your answers and decide if we're a good fit.
(I only work with people I genuinely believe I can help.)
Step 3: We hop on a discovery call (30-45 mins)
When you complete the application, you’ll be redirected to schedule a discovery call with me.
During this call, we'll dig deeper into your situation, talk about what's possible, and see if working together makes sense.
Step 4: If it's a yes, we get started
If we both feel good about it, I'll share program options, pricing, and next steps.
If not, no hard feelings — I might point you to other resources that could help.
No pressure. No secret sales offer.
Just an honest conversation about what you need and whether I'm the right person to help.
Let's talk about money.
I know this might feel like a big investment — especially if you're already financially tight.
I get it. I've been there. But here's the thing: staying stuck has a cost too.
The cost of another year of:
👻 Sunday scaries and work you hate
💭 Dreams on hold
😔 Feeling disconnected and not knowing how to trust yourself
⛔️ Imposter syndrome stopping you and running the show
My 1:1 coaching starts at $555 for 3 months, which is the recommended coaching container to begin with.
I offer payment plans because I believe the right support shouldn't be out of reach. And I have a limited number of scholarship spots for people who are 100% committed but genuinely can't afford full price.
This isn't an expense — it's an investment in finally getting unstuck.
If you're ready to stop researching and start moving, apply below.